Just how long should u date any one?I mean, 6 months and am going out of my mind...LOLReally, wouldnt u get tired of d same routine every day, every month, every yr? LOL Ok, am kidding but how long does it actually take you to figure if he or she is “the one”?Some people believe you will know as such u meet them...a connection, some serious chemistry, a certain je ne sais quoi... Am trying not to make it abt the guys cos we have female offenders but hmmm...lolpercentages don’t lie...“Some pple”need to work it out and over a loooonnnng time figure out if their gf or bf is the one and then neglect to tell them...d next thing you know, these people who have been dating forever are getting married to some else who their friends in some cases never knew or generally covered for them.You hear stories, actually hmmm... horror stories of situations where two people are dating serious r/tnship o and then next thing after like 5 yrs or something , ur other half decides ur not the one they want to spend the rest of their life with after 5 bloodly yrs!I mean, couldnt you have figured that out sooner?Or your together every thing is all sweet and strawberries and champagne, ur staying over for the weekend and ur darling swthrt says they need to travel for...somethingthen u find a trad wedding Invitation for him or her and some interloper who (we wld like to believe)has no idea.Its hard not to be cynical in a world where you can date someone for ten yrs, plan a wedding and they dump you for no reason and still try to sex with you afterwards Oh and for d record thats just not cool...
Its just not cool not to be upfront about ur intentions towards someone
Its just not cool to lead someone to believe u like them while ur waiting for something better to come alongAs much as i love dbanj’s booty call, no one likes to be one Its just not cool to use shallow values to choose a life partner except if ur mutually shallow of cos
Its just not cool to marry for money, i mean we all like luxury and good things but really ask urself would you stay if he or she had a life threatening disease or turned out to have gotten the money thru some creative way like i dont know...419, jazz or armed robbery?
Its not cool to be nasty or unkind to someone ur supposed to loveIts not cool to stay with anyone for strictly material benefit
Drama and relationships are NOT mutually exclusive
Its just not cool to say beliltting or emotionally crippling stuff to ur friends who are still supposed to treat d person with respect, ur their example
This is my "to not do" list written on one of my "insomniac" nights feel free to add on yours...
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ReplyDeleteSometimes I sound weird, but I can within the first meeting know the feasibility of a relationship with a girl...;
ReplyDeleteWith that settled, then within one month simulate various scenarios;
Then within 3 months (max) know if it's headed for marital bliss or just to add to already rich network of friends...
Within this time, a mature girl can get on with her life afterwards (supposing she was already gettin' emotionally tangled)